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WHEN TO ACT AS A LION AND WHEN TO ACT AS LAMB

It is said that if you must live then your mouth must not be kept shut but I can also tell you that a man’s mouth can lead him to his grave.

There are four different kinds of people. The ones who knows when and how to talk and the ones who don’t know when and how to talk, the ones who knows when to talk but don’t know how to talk and finally the ones who know how to talk but don’t know when to talk.

If you must talk you must have a purpose or else, you may be destroying yourself or destroying someone else.

Some people just want to talk because they feel they have to prove right and at the end they put themselves or others in trouble.

The reason why some people don’t get along with other people is because they want to be in charge forgetting that life is give and take. When you give you take and when you take you give. Do not expect respect from people when you can’t give respect to people. Do not expect love from people when you can’t show love to people.

In getting along with people there should be a mutual understanding.

A lion signifies a king in charge of a territory, sometimes it is good to be in charge but if it is restricting others from their free will, it can be said to be dangerous.

            I will be listing some of the things you should be in charge of or you should act as a lion on and also some of the things you should act as a lamb on.

1.      Your life:

Some people are actually living for others or rather living other people’s lives.

We live in a world where you see people who want to control other peoples live just because of peanut.

Do not trade your live for non-sense, stand up and take charge over your life. In the vehicle of life, men who have others to control them always experience fatal incident.

I am not saying that it is bad to take advice from people but what I am saying is that any advice that you are not comfortable with is a manipulation to control you and to lead you to dangerous path.

Any man that can still listen and take the advice of his friends and families throwing is wife out has been manipulated. Any parent that can listen to their friends not sending their daughters to school because they think she won’t amount to anything have been manipulated and controlled.

2.      Your thinking:

Do not in any way let people think for you.

Some people will want to bring things from their point of view but I can tell you that a man’s point of view is his viewing point.

The way people see things will be different and since you are not them and they are not you, they may be bias trying to give you ideas that can suit them. Don’t just think for yourself but think properly.

3.      Your emotions:

Sometimes I would wish that I can transfer my emotions to someone else to let them know I feel.

Your emotion is only for you and sometimes these emotions work with our instinct.

You don’t quench emotions, you only learn to control them and since it is you who feel them, it is you who should decide them.

4.      Your words:

Men may die but words never die, they stay in the atmosphere for long.

Do not allow people say your words for you. I am not saying that people cannot speak on your behalf but do not let people put words that you never intend to say.

            Words are speech or alteration that can be used by a person for liberation, battle, restoration, freedom and independence. A man who cannot say his own words cannot enjoy his freedom because people will have to put words in his mouth.

            Words mean saying it, standing by it and standing your ground. A lawyer may speak for you but he needs to hear what you have to say, he can only advice you but whatever you stand for is what he will say. And in altering your words, be careful so that you won’t have to say what may kill you.