WHEN TO ACT AS A LION AND WHEN TO ACT
AS LAMB
It is said
that if you must live then your mouth must not be kept shut but I can also tell
you that a man’s mouth can lead him to his grave.
There are four different kinds of people. The ones who knows
when and how to talk and the ones who don’t know when and how to talk, the ones
who knows when to talk but don’t know how to talk and finally the ones who know
how to talk but don’t know when to talk.
If you must talk you must have a purpose or else, you may be
destroying yourself or destroying someone else.
Some people just want to talk because they feel they have to
prove right and at the end they put themselves or others in trouble.
The reason why some people don’t get along with other people is
because they want to be in charge forgetting that life is give and take. When
you give you take and when you take you give. Do not expect respect from people
when you can’t give respect to people. Do not expect love from people when you
can’t show love to people.
In getting along with people there should be a mutual
understanding.
A lion
signifies a king in charge of a territory, sometimes it is good to be in charge
but if it is restricting others from their free will, it can be said to be
dangerous.
I will be listing some of the things
you should be in charge of or you should act as a lion on and also some of the
things you should act as a lamb on.
1. Your life:
Some people
are actually living for others or rather living other people’s lives.
We live in a
world where you see people who want to control other peoples live just because
of peanut.
Do not trade
your live for non-sense, stand up and take charge over your life. In the
vehicle of life, men who have others to control them always experience fatal
incident.
I am not
saying that it is bad to take advice from people but what I am saying is that
any advice that you are not comfortable with is a manipulation to control you
and to lead you to dangerous path.
Any man that
can still listen and take the advice of his friends and families throwing is
wife out has been manipulated. Any parent that can listen to their friends not
sending their daughters to school because they think she won’t amount to
anything have been manipulated and controlled.
2. Your thinking:
Do not in
any way let people think for you.
Some people
will want to bring things from their point of view but I can tell you that a
man’s point of view is his viewing point.
The way
people see things will be different and since you are not them and they are not
you, they may be bias trying to give you ideas that can suit them. Don’t just
think for yourself but think properly.
3. Your emotions:
Sometimes I would wish
that I can transfer my emotions to someone else to let them know I feel.
Your emotion
is only for you and sometimes these emotions work with our instinct.
You don’t
quench emotions, you only learn to control them and since it is you who feel
them, it is you who should decide them.
4. Your words:
Men may die but words never die, they
stay in the atmosphere for long.
Do not allow
people say your words for you. I am not saying that people cannot speak on your
behalf but do not let people put words that you never intend to say.
Words are speech or alteration that
can be used by a person for liberation, battle, restoration, freedom and
independence. A man who cannot say his own words cannot enjoy his freedom
because people will have to put words in his mouth.
Words mean saying it, standing by it
and standing your ground. A lawyer may speak for you but he needs to hear what
you have to say, he can only advice you but whatever you stand for is what he
will say. And in altering your words, be careful so that you won’t have to say
what may kill you.
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